Thanks everyone.
I am still struggling a bit with getting my arse whipped in the Foxtrot and Tango. Went ahead and did two uncontested Rumbas Saturday - Newcomer and Pre-Bronze levels, which are pretty easy. So, I got my two first place ribbons!!

My daughter is stoked.
Basically, I discovered what Melissa had told me - if you follow the rules completely you will likely lose.
On the bright side, Missy did her first true Pro-Am and took 2nd out of three couples. The winner is one of HER teachers, so.... not to shabby!! Yay for my lady!!
Looking like we might go back this fall. Who knows. One of the judges approached Melissa later in the competition and told her to make sure I don't quit. I had no intention of quitting, despite taking this pretty hard. Regardless, hearing this really lifted my spirits and has me bucking for more punishment!!
I have a few snapshots that another contestant took coming via email hopefully. And I could NOT get any video of the dance I wanted - my Full Bronze Foxtrot. However, my intermediate Tango and Foxtrot are coming and if I am not two embarrassed I will either post them or have Noodles help me post them.
My mind is still reeling and I've been home about and hour, so... off to spend some quality time with the kids.
Thanks again everyone. I've found a new life it seems. I am happy as ever, but sometimes we still need to hear from others that we are on the right track.