sb break? !??!!?!

Babbaloo

None taken - I am about to lay down the laws of love for you. Now, are you ready?

Godfather

Hope so

Babbaloo

Principle 1 - In Marriage and in War (G's going to love this), the best soldiers are the ones that believe they are already dead. They are then able to fight/love without regret or restraint.

Principle 2 - There are other fish in the sea. Learn it. Know it. Live it.

Translation - how do you believe you are already dead? You know it from experience. You only GET experience by HAVING experiences. If this girl has not faced her 'love mortality' then she is not the girl for you. She can delude herself into thinking you're Mr. Right which will lead to a crappy relationship down the road.

Babbaloo

Now for the personal experience part -

The year was 1990. I and my sweetheart of 3 years were graduating from highschool and making the plans that young pups in love make. We both were accepted to USC but only she could afford it. I went to community college to play baseball in order to transfer to USC under scholarship. That summer, we packed her up and drove her down from Seattle to LA. We spent a glorious week together - to kids in love on our own with the world revolving around us. We made all the promises you make when you part and for a couple months we lived up to them.

Babbaloo

Then she joined a sorority. Then she met a guy and he was a "good friend". Then I'm set to transfer in and I come down to visit the school and it turns out she's no longer living at the dorm but at this guy's house. We go through a bad break-up but eventually things sort themselves out and we agree to be friends, though I still had feelings for her (probably still do to this day). I end up at a different college where I enjoy single life for awhile but I eventually meet a girl. At the same time that I meet this girl, my ex wants to hang out more. Us being friends, I invite her over to my school and she brings some of her sorority sisters with her (my friends were very happy with me). Long story short, she comes over and sees that I have a girlfriend and treats this girlfriend like a second-class citizen. I find out from my ex's friends that she wanted to rekindle things with me.

Too bad.

I married that girl I met in college and she's the love of my life.

Moral: The both of you are too young to know what you want. You haven't committed yourself to the notion that no-one else could possibly be any better. And you know that old addage about "if you love someone, set them free . . . "? It's crap, but it gets your head able to deal with the notion that there is someone better out there. However, you will never find that person if you're looking over your shoulder to see if your ex will turn around.

Stray

i love you babbaloo...


BFF????

Babbaloo